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Destination Christmas 2011

2012-01-01T14:29:00.000-05:00

For this year's destination Christmas, we decided to fly out to Colorado and try our hand at skiing. My only experience with skiing was when I was in high school (maybe college?) and it was a less than positive experience. No matter, on December 23 we headed off to Eldora Mountain for a day of fun. We signed up Alex and Liam for ski school and we were able to get Cole in with Ignite Adaptive Sports. Bry and I decided not to ski that day just in case Cole didn't do well or needed to call it a day after lunch. It was a good call as he tired out really, really quick. His instructors were wonderful with him but he just doesn't have the muscle strength or stamina to be out there all day. But he loved it so much he asked to ski another day. His wonderful instructor made it possible by volunteering her time (and extra lift ticket) even though Ignite was closed that week.

Liam loved skiing too. He tends to go straight down the mountain and doesn't think turns are real necessary. Like most little boys, he likes to go fast. By the end of the second day, he was turning really well and almost ready for the chair lift.

Alex was not all that impressed with skiing. She was quite cautious and meticulous in her runs down the hill. She opted not to return for the second day because she was a bit scared of the chair lift. But she did really well on the day she was there.

Bryan and I took a private lesson on the kids second day of skiing. We had a lot of fun together and made some nice progress. Bry only fell once! I on the other hand face planted a few times. All in good fun though.

Now that we are home, we are looking for an adaptive program close to home for Cole to continue skiing. It looks like we might have found a sport that we all can participate in as a family. Of course we have a very long way to go before we are hitting the black diamond runs but maybe one day...

Cape Cod

2011-11-29T06:39:00.001-05:00

It's no secret that I adore the beach. I love everything about it. The sounds, the smells and the view. Over Thanksgiving weekend we were able to take a day trip to the Cape and enjoy the unseasonable warm weather. It was a picture perfect day.

The Great Pumpkin

2011-10-30T19:56:00.000-04:00

It's that time of year again...pumpkin carving! It's no secret that I despise carving pumpkins. Am I the only one who is totally grossed out by pumpkin guts? The smell makes me nauseous and the guts themselves make my skin burn. Really, it's not nice. But none of that matters because the kids love it. So on the eve before Halloween, we carve our gourds. This year Cole decided he wanted to carve his own for the first time ever. In fact, all three kids wanted to do it themselves. Score. So after Bry and I helped them gut their pumpkins and transfer the patterns onto their pumpkins (Alex did hers by herself, start to finish), they were on their own. I couldn't believe how great they turned out!

Alex loves pumpkin guts. How odd!

Cole working diligently.

Liam concentrating.

Alex carving

Cole's final product- the grim reaper

Liam's evil grin

Alex's bat/cat

All three lit up.

They all did such a great job. Perhaps next year I'll be off the hook for the entire project!

Welcome Back

2011-10-30T11:26:00.000-04:00

Yes, we are still alive. I realize it's been 3 months since I have posted last. To say that life is busy would be a gross understatement. But, here are a few pictures of the last few months.

Alex went to Colorado for two weeks to spend time with the grandparents.

Cole had a great summer at camp.

I raced two sprint triathlons.

Liam spent the summer on the beach

First day of school

Alex grade 5

Cole grade 3

Liam grade 2

Cole and Liam started Skateboarding

We had an October Nor'Easter

I think that brings us up to date. Of course a billion other things have occurred in between what you see here but those are the highlights. With any luck I will be able to update with a more consistency in the near future.

Catching Up

2011-07-07T06:46:00.000-04:00

So it's been forever since I've posted anything major. So, here is what we have been up to.

School is finished and we are enjoying summer to the fullest extent. I absolutely love the non structured day that summer allows us to have. While kids sleep late (sometimes BC even sleeps until 9:00!!) and I get to enjoy a nice quiet cup of coffee (doing so right now). It is a great way to start the day. We have spent a ton of time at the beach already. I should seriously track how many hours we've spent there. I'm not sure how many but it's been a lot of sandy goodness.

Allie and friend.

We spent the 4th of July weekend relaxing. Sort of. Saturday was running errands in the morning and relaxing in the afternoon and fireworks with my family in the evening. Sunday was a day at the beach (of course) with friends. Monday was a BBQ day.

Rare pic of me!

That brings us to this week which has flown by. Beach, beach and more beach and cleaning the house. Why oh why can't I have a housekeeper???

Summer Lovin'

2011-06-28T20:32:00.000-04:00

Hittin' the Trails

2011-04-30T08:08:00.002-04:00

Earlier this week, I had the wonderful idea to keep Stitch home from school and take him mountain biking. Of course, I wanted to make sure that he wouldn't be doing anything that was important at school. So, I emailed his teacher. Here is our conversation:

A-
I am trying to plan a mountain bike day with Stitch. He has been dying to ride but I have NO time on the weekends. Between Allie's lacrosse schedule and mass/BC's first communion prep, the weekends are shot. I have this Friday and next Friday off so I would love to take him then. But only if you all aren't doing anything that is vital to his education and such. :)
E

E-
That is so much fun! This Friday or next is fine. Stitch is a smart kid, so no loss for him! :) I am sure he will be VERY excited to go! Making memories is very important and we forget that school isn't everything and life is just as important. Enjoy!
A

I like a teacher who is that easy to work with and who get's that being in school isn't always the most important thing in a child's life.

So, off we went yesterday, to tear up the trails. Stitch did much better than I thought he would and we rode for over an hour. He learned that WHEN you fall, you get right up laugh it off and ride on. He found the joy in riding through puddles, over logs and discovered that it is pretty hard to ride through sand. He can't wait to go again.

Easter 2011

2011-04-24T13:29:00.000-04:00

Where does the time go???

2011-04-23T08:59:00.001-04:00

A friend reminded me yesterday that it is time to update the old blog. I guess it has been awhile since I last posted. I have no idea where the last two months have gone. I swear the last time I looked at the calendar it was still February. But alas, we are in April. The end of April no less! So here is the summary of our last few months.

Allie turned 10. A decade old. Wow. I can't believe it! She has become such a lovely, smart young lady. She pulled straight A's on her last report card (proud parent moment) and is playing lacrosse again this year. A few weeks ago she went off for a weekend with her Girl Scout troop to the Boston Museum of Science.

BC has kept us really busy. Really, really busy. Lots of appointments and meetings going on.

Stitch turned 7. He asked for a bike for his birthday. Being child number three, he has never had a bike of his own. He had BC's hand me down and then when it came time to learn to ride a two wheeler, he used Allie's pink bike. He was not a fan of the pink bike but we told him that once he mastered the two wheels, we'd get him a new one. Well, that was last year and we never quite made it to the bike store. Oops! So, on his birthday, I picked him up early from school, took him to lunch and then to the bike store and told him to pick out his bike. He was super excited and picked out a red Haro mountain bike. He has been hitting the trails every nice day we have had.

Stitch is still very active in Cub Scouts and received his Tiger badge at the Blue and Gold banquet in February. He is begging to go to Cub Scout camp this summer.

So, that really sums up the most important things of the last two months. Keep your eyes out for an Easter post and the an upcoming first communion post and maybe even an lacrosse post. It's a busy time around here so we'll see how long it takes me! :)

2011-03-20T21:01:00.000-04:00

Pleasant eperiences make life delightful.

Painful experiences lead to growth.

We got Chinese take out last week and this was my fortune. So true and appropriate for what is going on in our lives right now. We certainly do not like to go through the painful times in our lives but, if we do not go through them, then how can we learn from them?

Birthday Boy!

2011-02-28T12:30:00.002-05:00

It's hard to believe that BC is turning 8! It doesn't seem possible. But, alas, it is true. My little boy is 8 today.

Reliving the Past

2011-02-16T06:39:00.003-05:00

I was browsing through my iPhoto library this morning, all 3500 pictures (it's time to back them up and delete!), and I started at the beginning. I stumbled across a few that jumped out at me.

Niagara Falls 2007

Stitch (2008)

Allie and me (2008)

BC (2009)
Some things never change!

A few things that jumped out at me:

1. I need to lose a few pounds. I like how I look in that picture. I need to get back there. Stat!

2. The children have grown so much, especially Stitch. I can't believe how little he is in the Niagara Falls picture. Ahhhh, the good old days.

3. While things are constantly changing, some things remain the same. That face BC is giving the camera, we still see it often! :)

I love to look at photos and reminisce about the past. Perhaps I shall dig out our super old photos and post a few for my your viewing pleasure.

The Lion King

2011-02-14T06:42:00.001-05:00

A few years ago, BC saw an advertisement for a production of The Lion King. He was very interested in seeing it but were moving and missed the performances by just a few days. Fast forward to the present and The Lion King is being put on at the Providence Performing Arts Center. Cole saw the commercial on television and again voiced his interest in going. I absolutely love the theatre but never really saw BC as one who would be able to go and enjoy the performance. I was wrong. There could not have been a more perfect show to take him to in order to get him excited about theatre. I have been trying to find the words to describe the performance and beautiful is about the only word that comes to mind.

But beyond the amazing performance, to be able to see my son sit in awe and amazement for over 2 hours was more than words can say. For those of you that have a special needs child, you know the peaks and valleys that are faced in daily life. Well, in our house, we have been in the midst of a major valley for weeks (and still aren't completely out of it). So, needless to say, I was a bit nervous about taking him to see the show. I am so glad we went. It was just spectacular. I wish I could have taken a picture of him leaning on the railing in front of us enthralled with the production. But, I was afraid that the camera police would come after me so I refrained. We had wonderful seats too. Well, maybe not for everyone but they were the best seats in the house for us. We were in the balcony, a ways back but we were next to the wall and had a railing in front of us. This means that BC was able to stand up, lean on the rail and I didn't have to worry about him disturbing anyone around us. Perfect!

If you ever have the opportunity to see this show, it is a must see for both children and adults. Here's Cole's favorite song (mine too).

2011 Pinewood Derby

2011-01-28T21:26:00.001-05:00

Tonight the boys took part in the annual Pinewood Derby. Let me say, this event is a lot of work. I said this last year but this year it was double the trouble with Stitch in Cub Scouts as well as BC. We worked for weeks on those cars. Cutting, sanding, painting, polishing axles, adding graphite to wheels, etc.

Anyway, on to the action tonight. We get to the school and I whip out my camera only to find that the batteries are dead. I put fresh batteries in the camera right before we left the house. I am not sure what happened but oh well. Allie had brought her camera so I commandeered it for the evening.

We stared off the night at the check in line. Weight was up first. BC's car got weighed first and promptly failed the 5 ounce weight limit. I was very surprised as according to our scale, it was well under weight. So when it was Stitch's turn, I knew he'd fail and sure enough he did.

Off to the pit table we went to make some modifications. I whipped out my trusty Gerber tool and started prying off weights on Stitch's car and then BC's car. What a pain in the rear! Stitch's car was pretty simple to fix and it went on to pass inspection with flying colors. BC's car was a bit more complicated as I had to hunt down a precision screwdriver to unscrew the weights. But we made due and got it to come in just under 5 ounces (4.95 ounces to be exact).

Stitch's car is the one on the left. Not a great picture but it is a pickup truck.

BC's is the yellow car.

After both cars were confiscated, the pressure was off me and I was able to relax a bit until the races started. Stitch was really into the races! BC cared about the first one and then lost interest pretty quickly. Stitch ended up winning the Tiger den race and BC finished fourth in the Wolf den. Stitch ended up coming in third overall! I was pretty surprised at how well he did. He was so excited yet a bit disappointed that he did not win. He got over it pretty quickly once his trophy was awarded!

Stitch and his buddy goofing off.

Stitch's first race.

BC's first race.

BC having a snack.

Stitch receiving his third place overall trophy.

Stitch and the second place winner for the Tiger Den.

So, on to the district race Stitch and I shall go. I can only imagine what an experience that will be!

Wasting Away the Day in Margaritaville

2011-01-03T15:06:00.000-05:00

Today, Stitch won himself a day off from school and an all expense paid trip to Jimmy Buffet's Margaritaville in the Mohegan Sun. Stitch is a HUGE parrothead and has been dying to go to Margaritaville for quite some time. It was a surprise so here is how it went down.

Stitch is a bit of a slow poke when it comes to getting ready for school. He is almost always the last one ready and he is usually still putting his shoes on as we are walking up to the bus stop. So, today, as I was walking out the door with Allie and BC, I gave Stitch a bit of a hard time about not being ready. I told him just to stay with Dad and I would be back. Poor little dude thought he was in big trouble! I asked BL to tell Stitch what the surprise was but Stitch was so upset, he didn't quite understand. It wasn't until I got back from the bus stop that he realized it was a good thing that he was still home!

While I went for a little run, Stitch and BL played the Wii and XBOX and had a jolly good time. But, Stitch was counting down the minutes until we were to leave.

He was quite excited and was shocked at how big both Mohegan Sun and Margaritaville were. We were able to sit in a boat booth. He had a few favorite things from the restaurant. He liked the sharks, the surfboards, the Jimmy Buffet music and the FOOD! Of course he ordered a cheeseburger in paradise, what else would he get?

We had a wonderful time spending one on one time with our youngest son and hope to do it again soon.

Party Animal

2011-01-02T21:54:00.001-05:00

New Year's Eve
About 8:00 pm.
BC put himself to bed shortly after this.
Clearly he was deliriously tired.

2011

2011-01-01T14:27:00.000-05:00

Ahhhhh, it's the first day of the new year. A clean slate. A year full of promise. I love it! I have never been one to make resolutions. It's not that I don't believe in them but, let's face it, most people don't keep them so why bother? Instead, I like to create goals. Attainable goals.

Last year was a training/fitness nightmare for me. I was injured in March and never was able to get back into a groove. I only ran one race all year, a 5k in December. As the result, I gained weight and feel like a lard bucket. So, I shall tackle that this year. I will get my fitness back to where it needs to be. I'd like to do some more racing, both running and triathlon. We will see what the year brings.

I would like to continue to give my family the best I have to offer. There are many areas where I can improve so I would like to be a better mom and wife to my family.

I do have one other goals that I will keep to myself. I'll share them in about a year and a half when all is said and done but until then, I'll refrain from mentioning it. But, it's a good one!

I hope that this new year will bring peace and joy to you and your families! Here is to a happy and healthy 2011!

2010-12-29T21:09:00.000-05:00

My wonderful husband got me this for Christmas:

It's the Nook if you can't make out the small print.

It's a good thing too as it was just about the only thing I asked for! So far I am in love with it. I was a little worried I might not like reading from a computer like screen but it is nothing like a computer screen. It does not have a backlight and really is just like reading a paperback. Except there is not flipping pages, you push a button!

Anyway, I just finished The Hunger Games and I am one to my next book to devour. If you do not have an e-reader yet, and you are an avid reader, check out the Nook. Even if you do not purchase books often, many public libraries have ebooks you can download for free. Gotta love free!!

As a side note, I have read The Art of Racing in the Rain, The Nanny Diaries and The Hunger Games over the past week or 10 days. If you have any recommendations, send them along.

I'm Dreaming of a White Day After Christmas....

2010-12-27T19:47:00.001-05:00

While we did not have a white Christmas in Connecticut, we did have a white day after Christmas, a very white day after Christmas. It was insanely windy and cold, the children and dogs did not care one bit and bounded outside as soon as there was enough snow on the ground to go sledding and make snow angels and so forth.

Chillin' on the couch with video games after a long day of playing in the snow.

It is quite impossible to figure out how many total inches of accumulation we received due to the wind. We have areas in our yard that are just barely covered and others that have three feet drifts in them. Pretty crazy but lots of fun!

Christmas Shotts Style!

2010-12-25T20:34:00.000-05:00

It was a fantastic Christmas in the Shotts household this year. In fact, we heard more than once that this was the best Christmas ever! It started off a bit rocky last night with us not being able to find our Night Before Christmas book. Allie took it to school and it seems to have gone MIA since. I swear she brought it home but we tore the house apart and it was no where to be found. So, after searching high and low for 30 minutes, we gave up and Googled the beloved poem. Thank heavens for Google! After BL read the poem, the children left my secret recipe chocolate chip cookies and a special drink for Santa and it was off to bed with them around 10:00.

Oh yeah! Diet Mountain Dew in our house! No milk to be found!!!!

BL and I awoke this morning around 7:00 and the children were still snoozing peacefully. I was way too excited to let them sleep much longer so we got up and took the puppies up and added some wood to the wood stove. That was enough to stir Allie but not the boys. So, I tip toed into their room and pounced them in their beds. I woke them up with an exclamation of "Merry Christmas!!!!!!" BC was all groggy and such but Stitch woke and said, "It's time for stockings! No, wait, time to read the Bible."

He was absolutely correct and off to my room we went and I read Luke 2 out loud with everyone, even the two pups, on our bed listening attentively. Then, at last, it was stocking time. Everyone was very pleased with what Santa brought. It was a success all around. I must say, my favorite thing in my stocking was a pair of slippers. I am so excited to have slippers!

Winston

Mack

Traditionally, we have a large breakfast after our stockings and this year was no different. Bacon, sausage, hash browns, eggs. It was a nice feast that we all enjoyed. What was different this year was that we did not get dressed in our Christmas finest this year. BL made the command decision to let the children (and adults) stay in pajamas the entire day! I was not pleased with this but it wasn't a huge deal.

After breakfast we cleaned up, we opened gifts. In our house, we take turns opening, one at a time. It makes the day go a bit slower and for us, makes it much more special.

Photo courtesy of Stitch.

Stitch's photo skillz again!

The rest of the day was spent playing with our new gifts and just relaxing. BL played his new video games, BC video recorded everything, Allie played with her Teacup Piggie, Stitch played with his DSI XL and I entertained the children when they wanted to play Candyland or use their iTunes gift card or had a technical difficulty with an electronic and chatted on the phone with my mom or sister and tried to check out my new Nook! It was a spectacular day and one that we will cherish for years to come.

I hope your Christmas was a special and memorable as our has been!

Merry Christmas!

2010-12-24T13:19:00.000-05:00

My sister e-mailed this picture to me last night.

I absolutely adore it! Aren't we the cutest things? I'm not sure how old we are but we look to be about 5 and 3? Too cute for words. It makes me a tad bit sad that I did not get the children's picture taken with Santa this year but we just ran out of time.

Off to spread some holiday cheer with the rest of the family. Wishing you and your families a wonderfully joyous and peaceful Christmas filled with love.

Bobcat Badge

2010-12-18T11:38:00.001-05:00

After a few months of hard work and memorization, Stitch was rewarded with his Bobcat badge. In order to earn the Bobcat badge, a new Cub Scout must memorize and learn the following:

Cub Scout Promise:
I promise to do my best
To do my duty to God and my country,
To help other people, and
To obey the Law of the Pack

The Law of the Pack:
The Cub Scout follows Akela.
The Cub Scout helps the pack go.
The pack helps the Cub Scout Grow.
The Cub Scout gives goodwill.

What Weeblos means:
We'll Be Loyal Scouts

And the Cub Scout sign, handshake and salute. Stitch and his fellow Tiger Cubs worked very hard and all did a great job last night. Congrats guys!

Christmas Concert 2010

2010-12-17T08:22:00.000-05:00

Last night was the children's Christmas concert at their school. This was Allie's first as a member of the band. She has attempted to play the flute all year and has made more progress than I expected, albeit painful at times. The boys were singing cute holiday songs with their classes.

Anyway, as the children and I were frantically scurrying about trying to get ourselves ready, I get a call from BL who was on his way home from work. He says, "Can you come and get me at the pond, my truck just broke down." I thought he was kidding as his truck is not an old beater and we've never had any problems with it. But, alas, he was not kidding. So, amidst all of our rushing around, we drop everything and run a half mile down the street and pick up poor BL who looked like his puppy had just run away from home.

Back on track now, we head off to the children's school and sit and wait for the program to start. And wait and wait and wait. Bah Humbug, I hate waiting. They started eventually and we were treated to a bunch of children ~~screaming their head off~~ singing their hearts out. Awwwww, aren't they cute.

Stitch LOVES to sing and be in front of a crowd. He was in his element.

BC, well, he HATES stuff like this and it was actually his first year that he participated.

After K-3 finished their respective songs, we had a brief set change and it was Allie's time to shine with the band. The curtain rises up and this is the view we had of our wonderful daughter making her musical instrument debut:

Not the best view, huh?

Congrats to all three of my children for doing a wonderful job and have made me so proud.

As a side note, BL's truck is being towed this morning and it looks like the repairs will be covered under warranty.

Christmas Time Surprises

2010-12-13T06:59:00.001-05:00

Yesterday, I took Allie out for a Christmas surprise. All I told her is that she needed to dress up and we were going out. She was super duper excited as it had been quite some time since our last girls day out. It is something I really enjoy doing with her and hope as she gets older, she will want to continue.

So, after lunch, we got dressed (she picked what I was to wear) and put on make up (don't forget to blot your lipstick!) and off we went. We arrived at Mohegan Sun Casino and she still had no idea what we were there to see. We picked up our tickets from Will Call and she was still not sure. It wasn't until the attendants gave her an ornament that she picked up on why we were there. We were seeing The Nutcracker! She was very excited.

The show was lovely. Alex enjoyed it very much and did a great job following the story line. I was very impressed. That said, halfway through the second act, she was ready to go. We made it to the end with a promise of more surprises to come.

After the show, she debated about having her picture taken with Santa (she no longer believes) and decided against it. So, off we trotted to our next surprise, Jimmy Buffet's Margaritaville! All three children are in love with the song "Cheeseburger in Paradise" and I have been wanting to take them. What better time than the present?

The quote of the night had to be when Allie, while eating her burger, exclaimed, "This is paradise!"

Overall, it was a wonderful time spent with my wonderful daughter. She is growing up entirely to fast and I truly cherish each moment I have to spend time with her while she is young.

It's Beginning to Look A Lot Like Christmas

2010-12-13T06:59:00.000-05:00

The Saturday after Thanksgiving, after everyone was all recovered from eating a ton and shopping a ton, we put up our Christmas tree. Traditionally, we have white lights on our tree. Well, this year, it was time to replace the lights due to the fact that the majority of the bulbs burnt out! We took a family vote of what kind of lights to have on the tree. It was 4 to 1 in favor of color lights. I was the sole dissenting vote. Shoot! Oh well, Christmas is supposed to be for the children, right? Yeah, I don't think so either. But, seeing as democracy rules, we bought colored lights and I strung them to show my support. Or something like that.

While listening to Christmas music, the children adorned the tree with all sorts of lovely ornaments I had forgotten about. You know the type, the homemade ones from a jar lid with their picture on it or the tongue compressor snowman. And who could forget the candy cane made out of pasta! Oh boy, such creativity on our tree. After the children were finished, they stood in front looking so proud.

I couldn't quite bring myself to tell them that once they went to bed I'd be removing all of those ornaments they so treasure. Shhhh, don't tell, it'll be our secret!

November PA Trip

2010-11-23T06:48:00.000-05:00

It's no secret that we love going to visit my aunt and uncle in PA. The entire family (including the dogs) always have a wonderful time when we visit. So, with that in mind, we packed up and decided to make one last visit for the year.

We left CT on Saturday and traversed the miles pretty quickly. In fact, we hit no traffic at all! As soon as we got there and the reunion was complete, my aunt took the kids off shopping and BL and I went to lunch. It was such a nice afternoon.

Stitch and my cousin goofing off.

Brrrrrr!

Our favorite ice cream spot, The Inside Scoop.

Cotton Candy ice cream tongue.

Silly fun with Sumo costumes.

While we weren't able to stay very long, we had so much fun!

New Addition

2010-11-13T14:58:00.001-05:00

Awhile ago, I wrote that I was thinking about adding another puppy to the family. BL and I decided that perhaps it is not the best time right now. But, we still kept on looking anyway. We had been looking for awhile and just didn't see anything that jumped out at us. With BC's medical history, we are pretty much relegated to the hypo-allergenic breeds so our pool to pick from is pretty limited, mainly small dogs. As much as we adore Winston, BL really wanted a bigger dog. So, we started looking at Goldendoodles and Labradoodles. Well, I happened to stumble on an ad for Labradoodle puppies in Massachusetts, only an hour away for a pretty good price. We thought about it for a few days and both BL and I agreed to go and check them out. Well, you know just as much as I do that you cannot just go and look at puppies without walking away with one.

So, without further ado, meet Mack.

Snow

2010-11-08T20:09:00.000-05:00

First snowfall

2010-11-08T06:00:00.004-05:00

Oh my heavens! I woke up this morning and went to take Winston outside only to discover that there is snow on the ground! What?????? It is early November. It's gonna be a long winter!

Halloween 2010

2010-11-07T06:05:00.001-05:00

I know, it has taken me over a week to get this up but I have been super busy. Just when I think I have worked out a balance of power, I get slammed with new projects. Bah! Anyway, we had a lovely Halloween, albeit super cold.

Allie asked that I wear a costume too. I really didn't want to wear it but if I didn't I know I'd hear about it forever and if I did, then maybe in 10-15 years, she'll look back and realize what a sacrifice I made for her. Or not.

Trick or Treat!

Plymouth 2010

2010-10-31T14:01:00.002-04:00

I was uploading some pictures of pumpkin carving and I found these pictures of our trip to Plymouth, MA this summer. I have found that is is next to impossible to get a picture of all three children that looks good. But, I absolutely love these individual shots, especially the one of Stitch.

Halloween 2010 Preview

2010-10-30T21:38:00.001-04:00

This weekend has been full of Halloween events. Mostly Cub Scout events with a few other's thrown in for good measure.

On Friday night, the boys had their Cub Scout Pack meeting. BC received 5 belt loops that he had worked on over the summer. He was very excited.

The boys also carved pumpkins! This was the first year that the boys carved theirs all by themselves. Both boys worked very diligently.

On Saturday evening, we packed up the family and headed off to Camp Tadma to attend the annual Haunted Woods event. It was spooktacularly fun. Stitch said it was a bit creepy but he was first in line to go through each scary section. He is just like his father!

The children are very much looking forward to Trick or Treating. Stay tuned for costume pictures!

Reading List

2010-10-24T13:36:00.002-04:00

I'm working on accumulating a winter must read list. I would love to hear what you all are reading and what your recommendations are. I am not looking for anything too deep or thought provoking but am open to pretty much anything. So, what are you reading???

Blue Back Mitten Run

2010-10-20T21:13:00.000-04:00

BL and I registered for the Blue Back Mitten Run. This is the last race I ran before my injury. It's been almost a year since I have raced and I am really looking forward to it. It also happens to be my birthday that weekend! The plan is to run and push hard enough to justify having lunch at The Cheesecake Factory. So, who else in?

Hmmmm.....

2010-10-12T21:42:00.000-04:00

Is it wrong that amidst my insanely busy and crazy life that I am thinking of getting a puppy? They are just so darn cute and Winston needs a friend.

Winston

6 months old

2010-10-10T10:22:00.001-04:00

I was informed by BL yesterday that I have not updated in FOREVER. So true but life had been absolutely INSANE the past few months. Like I barely have time to eat some days crazy. Of course, I have gained a few pounds so perhaps not eating would be a good thing! So, here are some pictures of what has been going on around here.

More summer fun in Pennsylvania

First Day of School

This past weekend, the boys had a Cub Scout event at Camp Tadma. The highlight of the day for Stitch was petting the snake (ewww) and BC LOVED shooting a BB gun for the first time. I don't have any pictures of that since I had to be with Stitch for his events but I did grab a few of the archery range after Stitch's schedule was complete. It was a long day but lots of fun!

So, as you can see, not much has happened around here for the past few months. It has been quiet but insanely busy at the same time. Hopefully I will do better at taking more pictures and updating as things hopefully settle down. But, I wouldn't hold my breath!

"I'm gonna have a scope!"

2010-08-17T21:53:00.000-04:00

Today was a long day. It was BC's much anticipated "scope." What "scope" you might ask. Let me start with a little background information.

When BC was two, he was diagnosed with asthma. At first, it only flared up when he came down with a cold. When he got sick, we'd start him on Flovent and Albuterol and it would take care of all of his symptoms. A year or so went by and his doctor noticed that we were coming in more and more with coughing symptoms. We started daily Flovent and Singular. Even with those controller med's, BC was still flaring frequently. When BC started Kindergarten, he missed about 15 days of school in the due to being sick. This past year, he missed over 20 days because of illness' related to asthma. We finally got our pediatrician to give us a referral to a pediatric pulmonary doctor after BC had pneumonia this past winter.

Fast forward a few months of trying new to the market inhalers (that didn't work, scary!) and his doctor decided it was time to take a look inside and see what is going on. So, she scheduled a bronchoscopy to be done at Yale Children's Hospital.

BC and I went in a few weeks ago for a pre admission visit. He was pretty anxious about it all at first. But, the staff treated him like a total rock star. Anything he wanted or needed, he was given. They explained the entire procedure to him and answered all his questions. Then topped off our visit with Italian Ice. What more could a little boy ask for? We left and he would tell everyone he came in contact with that he was gonna have a "scope" done. He was actually looking forward to it, silly boy!

Come this morning, he was not too happy that he couldn't have breakfast but was ready to hit the road. We got down to Yale and checked in at the admission desk. They gave BC his bracelet and also had one made for his stuffed animal, Mac. How cute is that? After we were done there, we headed up to the surgical floor to sit and wait. And wait. And wait. After about 45 minutes, they called us back. With vitals taken and questions answered, it was time to wait again! This time, it was a bit easier with Play-Dough and Phinneas and Ferb to keep us entertained. Another 45 minutes to an hour passed and it was time for BC to rock and roll. I was lucky enough to be able to walk him into his OR. He got a kick out of me donning the surgical outfit (complete with a lovely cap). I walked him back, got him all situated and stayed with him until he was asleep. Once asleep, I gave him a quick kiss and headed back to the waiting room to wait with BL.

No sooner than I sat down with a cup of coffee and check my email, his doctor was out to chat with us. Wow, that was fast! She gave us good news and bad news. Good news was his airway looked great. The bad news was that the fluid in his lungs looked really bad. She sent the samples off to the lab and we will have results.....well, whenever we get them back! The doc talked with us for awhile and then BL and I went back to sit with BC. He was still asleep with we got there but was starting to stir (read cough up a lung!). It wasn't long before he opened his eyes and looked up at us all confused. His nurse asked him if he wanted a popsicle and he perked right up and asked for an Italian Ice instead. That boy is all about the Italian Ice.

While he was munching on his Italian Ice, he was still pretty out of it. He would be chatting randomly and then would stop and ask me, "where am I?" or "was I asleep?" It was pretty funny! This went on for a bit before he completely snapped out of it.

When he was finished with his Italian Ice, he got his IV removed and we were able to head home. But, first, he was able to chose a toy. Score! He was super excited about that. After choosing some farm animals, he hopped in a lovely wheelchair and we were on our way home. 5 hours after we arrived.

All and all, while it was a long day, hopefully we will have some answers as to how to treat his asthma soon.

More fun at the pool!

2010-07-29T07:41:00.000-04:00

This summer has been perfect pool weather. Hot, hot, hot! We have spent three out of the past four days in the water and are loving it!

Stitch perfecting his cannon ball.

Allie hamming it up for the camera.

BC spent about an hour bobbing around pretending to be a turtle. It was a very quiet hour!

SCPO

2010-07-16T20:37:00.001-04:00

Congrats to BL for being selected for advancement to Senior Chief Petty Officer!

Splash!

2010-07-16T15:21:00.001-04:00

Sunday Drive

2010-07-11T18:48:00.000-04:00

Today we decided to take a Sunday afternoon drive. As a child, I remember taking family drives. I cannot say as though I enjoyed them but that is another story!

We decided to take the road less traveled and shoot up to the Quiet Corner of the state. We happened to stumble upon a lovely vineyard, Taylor Brooke Winery, in a beautiful area so we pulled in. We all strolled through the vines and enjoyed the scenery. We stopped into the wine tasting room and BL and I did the wine tasting while the children read books and enjoyed a soda.

While I might not have enjoyed Sunday drives as a child, I always look forward to our adventures as an adult. I can't wait to see where our next trip takes us.

Fourth of July Family Fun

2010-07-06T10:51:00.000-04:00

For the past three years on the 4th of July, we have been at my aunt and uncle's house in Pennsylvania (2008 and 2009). Every other year the extended family has joined us.

Grandparents

We couldn't have asked for better pool weather. Sunny and in the 80s/90s all weekend. The kids jumped into the pool the minute we got there and pretty much stayed there until we left on Monday morning.

Winston and his BFF Abbie

On Saturday, my Aunt B and Uncle L wanted to go to Amish country. BL and I decided to go with them. It was a beautiful drive out there and we loved seeing the horse and buggies along the road. It is amazing to see the men working in the fields with their horses and plows. I cannot imagine how they do it!

Aunt B and Uncle L

It was a great weekend and we are planning to head back down in August.

Niagara Falls 2010

2010-06-30T20:47:00.000-04:00

As I mentioned in my last post, my SIL, BIL and nephew came out to visit us. The last time they came East was for our wedding, 11 years ago! This was the first time my nephew had been here. They got here on Saturday, June 19 and the plan was to spend a few days seeing the sights around here and then to head north to Niagara Falls together and spend a few days there.

Let's skip the CT part and get to the Niagara part, shall we? Good, I didn't think you would mind too much.

On Thursday, we left the house around 7:00 and hit the road. My little nephew had a bit of a puking incident the night before so us adults were pretty tired. No matter, we had a lovely drive to the Falls. To make the drive go faster, we listened to the book Red Pyramid by Rick Riordan. Even Winston enjoyed it. In fact, every time we paused the book, he would bark at us. As soon as we restarted it, he'd settle down. Funny puppy!

We stopped at the American side before crossing the border into Canada. The last time we visited the Falls, we did not go to the American side and we wanted to check it out. I am so glad we did! It was beautiful and offered a much different perspective of the Falls. The walking paths were great. Everyone, including Winston, enjoyed them.

Stitch took this picture. Not bad for a 6y/o, huh?

After we finished our lovely walk, we headed over the border and to our hotel. We got checked in and met up with our BIL/SIL. They were pretty wiped out so we decided to do our own thing for dinner. BL got a recommendation for a pizza place called Johnny Rocco's. It's a brick oven pizza joint with an open kitchen. It was fun to watch the kitchen staff making all the dishes. As an added bonus, our waitress brought out raw pizza dough for the kids to play with while we waited for our food. They had a blast with that and as an added bonus, the food was great.

On Friday, we got up and had a quick breakfast and headed to the Falls. SIL/BIL/nephew went on the Maid of the Mist and our crew took a nice stroll along the water. After we met back up, we headed for lunch at the Hard Rock Cafe. Next up was Journey Behind the Falls. Such a cool experience to hear/feel the rush of the water. Dinner was McDonald's. What, we were tired!

Saturday was our last day visiting the region. So, we got up early (yet again) and crossed the border back into the USA. Our main goal for the day was to visit the Cave of the Winds. Oh my heavens, that was so cool! There is nothing like that experience. You must do it if you visit the Falls. The Hurricane Deck was amazing. The water literally pounds you as it falls. Crazy fun.

After that, the rain started to fall. So, we headed back over the border and decided to hit the Hershey's store and then had lunch at the Rainforest Cafe. Such a fun place.

We all were pretty wiped out after a few days packed with fun. It was a great opportunity to be able to spend time with our SIL/BIL/nephew who we don't get to see often enough. I hope we can do it again soon. Do I hear Disney anyone??

Cub Scout Weekend

2010-06-30T20:02:00.000-04:00

June 18-19 was BC's Cub Scout end of year camp out at our local state forest. That also happened to be the same weekend that my sister-in-law, brother-in-law and nephew were coming to visit. So, instead of camping, we went for the festivities on Friday evening and then again on Saturday afternoon.

Friday night, BC received his Tiger badge. He was supposed to get it back in January but, due to illness, was unable to attend the Blue and Gold Banquet. He also received a few belt loops that he has worked on over the winter and spring.

The pack also performed a flag retirement ceremony. It was really something to see the boys participate in this tradition. It was great that the boys gave our nation's flag the respect it deserves.

On Saturday, we went back and had a blast playing kickball and tug of war. After a break in the action, we headed off for a little letter-boxing. While the hike might have been a bit long for the boys, they were quite happy to find the stamp and were eager to get their hand stamped.

We wrapped up the day with a water gun fight and some face painting. It was a total blast and I think next time, we will camp out the whole time. Congrats to BC for such a successful year as a Tiger Cub!

Stitch joins the club

2010-06-23T07:55:00.000-04:00

For quite some time now, Stitch has been getting headaches. I didn't think much about it but did feel bad for the poor lad. Then he started complaining that he couldn't see very well. Again, I didn't think much about it. This was because when Allie got glasses last year, Stitch was bummed out that he was the only person in our family that didn't wear glasses. Therefore, I assumed that he just wanted to join our club. But, as time passed, his headaches started to come more frequently. So, I broke down and made him an eye doctor appointment. He was so excited!

The day finally came and off we went. I could tell at the start of the appointment that things were not going to go my way. He was reading the eye chart and couldn't read it at all! So, on to the next largest size....nope.....next largest.....nope......next largest......nope. And so on and so forth.

My heart sunk. I knew it was inevitable for him to have to wear glasses but I was hopeful that he wouldn't need them so soon. On the other hand, Stitch was so excited! He finally got to join our club.

Zoom, Zoom!

2010-06-10T07:20:00.000-04:00

Yesterday we traded in the Ford Five Hundred for a bigger car. BL really wanted a minivan but I just couldn't do it! So, we compromised. We bought a Mazda 5. I like to say it's a station wagon with minivan doors. BL says it's a minivan. What do you think?

Memorial Day 2010

2010-06-02T14:00:00.000-04:00

This Memorial Day weekend, we decided to have a backyard camp out! Why bother going to a campground when we live in the state forest, right? So on Friday afternoon, BL and I set up the mack daddy of tents. It is a 3 bedroom tent, yup, it's huge!

The kids were so excited to be camping! We had great weather and lots of family fun. Tons of outdoor activities were the name of the weekend: lacrosse, baseball, Frisbee, soccer, horseshoes, bocce and just good old fashion running around. It was a blast!

(As a side note, BL made the picnic table last weekend. We love it!)

Of course, what is camping with out s'mores!

The weekend was topped off with the most beautiful sunset. It was a picture perfect good time!

Vermont

2010-05-11T21:21:00.000-04:00

Here's a conversation BL and I had on Friday:

BL: "Let's go to Vermont tomorrow."

Me: "No. We are getting together with my family for Mother's Day. I told you this last week."

BL: "Bummer." (okay, he probably didn't say that but I don't remember his reply.)

I decide to make a phone call to see if anyone would miss us at our little family brunch. My mom says, nope, go and have fun. Sweet! So, off we go to pack our bags.

On Saturday morning, we load the car and grab the puppy and head off in the direction of Stowe, VT. We stopped in New Hampshire for some yummy lunch and made it to Ben & Jerry's just in time for an afternoon snack. I have to say, we were disappointed in the 'tour.' It wasn't much of anything but the ice cream was still YUMMY!

We did a bit more sight seeing and such and headed to dinner at local Mexican place. One of the dinner specials was a fried rabbit liver taco! We passed on that option but it made me laugh.

On Sunday, we woke up around 6:00. Sleeping in for us! I grabbed Winston and took him outside to find SNOW on the ground. It was snowing. In May. Crazy. I cannot believe how cold it was and how fast the flakes were flying.

We had breakfast and headed into Waterbury to go to the Green Mountain Coffee Co. Everyone enjoyed the interactive exhibits they had and BL and I enjoyed some coffee.

After we finished up there, we drove around Stowe for a bit, awing at the beauty of the landscape. Such a pretty area.

Then we decided we better head on home. We took the road less traveled home and are so glad we did. We saw some beautiful waterfalls and fun towns. By the time we made it home, we all were pretty tired but we had such a great time, it was worth it!

Yikes...

2010-05-11T20:43:00.000-04:00

My last post was in January. This poor blog is in a sorry state! Time for some recapping.

In April, we said goodbye to our first family pet, Kona. She was only with us for a few months but she will be forever in our hearts. We all had a difficult time dealing with her tragic death. But, we made it through.

A few weeks later, we welcomed Winston into the family. Winston is a Cavapoo, Cavalier King Charles/Poodle mix. He is a fantastically feisty puppy. We love him to pieces!

BC went fishing for the first time. He caught a little fish within the first few minutes of casting his pole. He was thrilled! Allie and Stitch didn't have any luck but had a blast being out there.

Allie is playing lacrosse this year. This is her first season and she love it. She has made wonderful progress in the short time she has been playing. She scored a goal in her second game and she has played goalie too. She might be tiny, but she can play!

As far as my racing is concerned, 2010 is turning out to be the year of the DNS (did not start) for me. I wasn't able to run the February half marathon due to the children being ill. Then in March, I developed Morton's Neuroma in my left foot. I have been dealing with it for months. The doctor has tried a conservative approach that just isn't working. So, I am headed to Yale this week to see what they can do for me. The only way to get rid of it permanently is surgery. I'm ready to have this thing cut out of my foot so I can run again! Don't ever take it for granted!!! So, no triathlons for me this season and I probably won't be running anything over a 5k for the year. I just hope to be back running before August.

Hopefully this will get me back into the blogging routine and I won't go 5 months between posts! I didn't even blog about the kids birthdays. Oh the horror!

Stay tuned for a post about our Vermont weekend getaway!

Catching Up

2010-01-24T11:13:00.002-05:00

Well, it has been a few weeks since I have posted. Life has not settled down like I was hoping after Christmas and New Year's. Oh well, what is one to do but roll with the punches, right?

So, here is what has been going on in the Shotts house:

Hockey game with the Cub Scouts, the Providence Bruins vs. Hartford Wolf Pack.

Stitch getting beat up by BC. Good thing chicks dig scars!

Pinewood Derby!! It was our first Pinewood Derby and we ran out of time to get BC's car done. He wanted a tank so we did our best to accomidate his request. It did not do well in the race (too light) but we learned a lot for next year. A good time was had by BC though and that is what matters.

And, of course, we cannot forget Kona. She is 11 weeks old and growing fast. Although she might look tiny to you all, she has gotten HUGE. She is crate trained and we are working on fully housebreaking her. We have a bell that is hanging by the door that she rings when she needs to go outside. Still working on consistency but we are making progress.

2010-01-04T07:45:00.001-05:00

On New Year's Eve, we were lucky enough to have a chimney installed for our new wood stove. BL was very anxious to get it fired up. It is great to have the basement be toasty warm and not freeze every time we go down there.

Kona is feeling very at home now. She is quite feisty and enjoys biting everything in sight. She's doing fairly well in the housebreaking department as well. But, getting up at 4:45 to take her outside isn't my idea of fun! Good thing she is adorable!

December Round Up

2009-12-31T07:51:00.001-05:00

Well, the holiday's are about over with only New Year's left. I am completely exhausted! We had an insanely busy few weeks. So, I will catch you all up in one post as opposed to two or three.

On December 20, we had an insane amount of snow fall. I think we measured about 20 inches in some spots and 24" in others. It was a lot to shovel and almost too much for the kids to play in. But they sure tried!

Then, on December 22, we packed up the car for a good old fashioned road trip! We headed out at 5:30 pm to drive through the night and wind up in St. Louis. Our plan was to spend the 23rd and 24th in St. Louis and then head off to surprise BL's parents for Christmas morning.

We headed to the Anheuser-Bush brewery for a tour on Thursday. The kids loved the Clydesdale's but hated the smell of the beer brewing. Couldn't blame them, it was pretty smelly!

Then on Christmas Eve, we got up and headed to the Arch. We all enjoyed going up inside the Arch and enjoyed the views.

After the Arch, we headed back to the hotel to hang out for a bit. Then we went to Union Station and walked around there for awhile finishing up our Christmas shopping and having lunch.

At 4:30, we headed off to the Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis for the Christmas Eve vigil mass. It was by far, the most beautiful church I have ever been in. The mosaics on the ceilings were just amazing! The mass was wonderful and everyone enjoyed it.

When mass was over, we went back to our hotel for the best Christmas Eve dinner we have ever had. We had reservations at Ruth's Chris and had an amazing dinner. The kids were in heaven with their steaks and I think BL thought he'd died and gone to heaven!

After our marvelous dinner, we headed off to tuck the children in bed. When they had sugarplums dancing in their heads, Santa came!!! Santa was good to the kids this year. The kids each scored ipod nano's and Zhu Zhu Pets. What more could three little kids ask for??

Shortly after we finished opening presents, we packed up the car (okay, the porter did it for us) and drove the two hours up to BL's parents house. We got there at about 7:30 (yes, am) and walked in the house. I was greated by my brother-in-law with an astonished look on his face. After a quick hug, I walked up to my mother-in-law to wish her a Merry Christmas. To say she was surprised would be an understatement. It was a great gift to be able to give to our family far away.

Our last surprise of the season was a new addition to the family. For those of you who know BL and I well, you know that we are very done adding members to our family. We have thought for quite some time that our family was complete. Well, apparently not. We welcomed Kona Shotts into our family on December 26. She is a Morkie, a Maltese/Yorkie mix. Kona has been the best puppy we could ask for. She was a champ on our 21 hour drive home (we hit bad weather) and has slept and had very few accidents in the house (one). The kids love her and she has BL wrapped around her little paw.

We headed home on Monday, December 29. It took us forever to get home due to bad weather. When we finally rolled in at 5:45 on Tuesday morning, we all were exhausted but glad to be home. Vacation is always a blast but there is nothing like that feeling of coming home.

I hope you all had a great holiday season and enjoyed it as much as we did. 2009 was a crazy year and who knows what adventures lay in store for us in 2010 but we are ready!

Weekend Festivities

2009-12-14T09:38:00.004-05:00

Sunday was a busy day for the Shotts household. BL

had a 5k race up in Somerville, MA so we all piled into the car and headed toward Boston to freeze our rears off. Such fun! It was the Jingle Bell Run with 5500 runners/walkers registered. We saw lots of really great costumes and had a good time (minus the times when BC tried to run away because of the crowds). BL did quite well and finished in 27:01. So close to breaking the 27 minute barrier. Next time!

When we got home and thawed out, we trimed the tree. The kids always have a blast doing this holiday activity and it always cracks me up! They just throw the ornaments up there, one after another. So, naturally, BL and I redecorated it after they had finished.

I finished off the night by wrapping the gifts. The kids were so excited this morning when they got up and saw the presents under the tree. They sat there looking through them to see which ones are theirs. Brings back memories of doing that myself when I was a kid.

Next weekend is shaping up to be just as busy with celebrating Christmas with my family on Saturday. Hard to believe that the big day is in 11 days!

First Snowfall

2009-12-09T11:36:00.005-05:00

We got our first snowfall on Saturday night. The kids were so excited to play in it on Sunday. They were very disappointed when we got up Sunday and headed off to Hartford for me to run in the Blue Back Square Mitten Run. I finished 3rd in my division (3/40) and had a fun time.

When we got home, we let the kids go crazy in the snow. I love this picture of Allie.

Today is our first snow day of the year. We woke up to a few inches on the ground and our final total was about 5 inches before it turned over to rain. The kids got a few hours of playtime before they came back inside and left me to shovel the driveway by myself. Thanks guys!

Recap of Fall 2009

2009-12-05T08:01:00.006-05:00

I know I haven't posted much in about a year (!) but here is a recap of the fall season in the Shotts household.

We bought a house!

BC is a Cub Scout (Tiger Cub). Isn't he the cutest?

Lots of sickness. The flu struck hard here!

BL and the boys on Thanksgiving morning.

Allie baked her first pie.

Stitch and his best bud on Thanksgiving.

My in laws visited in the early part of the month but I apparently didn't take any pictures. Sheesh. We got a lot done around the house and even squeezed in a 5k run before they left. We all enjoyed the time with them and were sad to see them leave.

More sickness is abounding with BC having strep throat, a sinus infection and an asthma flare. Our pharmacy is back in operation with 5 medications daily for the little guy (but two are ones he takes daily anyway).

We are looking forward to a great December (can't believe it is already the 5th) and 2010!

New Moon

2009-12-05T07:59:00.002-05:00

Okay, more like full moon but you get the picture! I woke up last week and was greeted to this spectacular view of my back yard. It was spectacular!

My Guys

2009-10-26T11:54:00.001-04:00

Our backyard, otherwise known as:

Pachaug State Forest

New take on Holland

2009-07-27T16:56:00.003-04:00

Awhile ago I posted an essay written by Emily Peril Kingsley called "Welcome to Holland." I really enjoyed reading it and felt I could relate to some of it. Well, yesterday I stumbled across a different take on Holland. I got a major kick out of it and can relate more to this than the first one! It's a bit long but worth it.

Holland Schmolland

by Laura Kreuger Crawford

If you have a special needs child, which I do, and if you troll the

Internet for information, which I have done, you will come across a

certain inspirational analogy. It goes like this:

Imagine that you are planning a trip to Italy. You read all the

latest travel books, you consult with friends about what to pack, and

you develop an elaborate itinerary for your glorious trip. The day

arrives.

You board the plane and settle in with your in-flight magazine,

dreaming of trattorias, gondola rides, and gelato. However when the

plane lands you discover, much to your surprise, you are not in

Italy -- you are in Holland. You are greatly dismayed at this abrupt

and unexpected change in plans.

You rant and rave to the travel agency, but it does no good. You are

stuck. After awhile, you tire of fighting and begin to look at what

Holland has to offer. You notice the beautiful tulips, the kindly

people in the wooden shoes, the french fries with mayonnaise, and you

think, "This isn't exactly what I had planned, but it's not so bad.

It's just different."

Having a child with special needs is supposed to be like this -- not

any worse than having a typical child -- just different.

When I read this my son was almost 3, completely non-verbal and was

hitting me over 100 times a day. While I appreciated the intention of

the story, I couldn't help but think, "Are they kidding? We're not in

some peaceful country dotted with windmills. We are in a country

under siege -- dodging bombs, boarding overloaded helicopters,

bribing officials -- all the while thinking, "What happened to our

beautiful life?"

That was five years ago.

My son is now 8 and though we have come to accept that he will always

have autism, we no longer feel like citizens of a battle-torn nation.

With the help of countless dedicated therapists and teachers,

biological interventions, and an enormously supportive family, my son

has become a fun-loving, affectionate boy with many endearing

qualities and skills. In the process we've created . . . well . . .

our own country, with its own unique traditions and customs.

It's not a war zone, but it's still not Holland. Let's call it

Schmolland. In Schmolland, it's perfectly customary to lick walls,

rub cold pieces of metal across your mouth and line up all your toys

end-to-end. You can show affection by giving a "pointy chin."

A "pointy chin" is when you act like you are going to hug someone and

just when you are really close, you jam your chin into the other

person's shoulder. For the person giving the "pointy chin" this feels

really good, for the receiver, not so much -- but you get used to it.

For citizens of Schmolland, it is quite normal to repeat lines from

videos to express emotion. If you are sad, you can look downcast and

say, "Oh, Pongo." When mad or anxious, you might shout, "Snow can't

stop me!" or "Duchess, kittens, come on!" Sometimes, "And now our

feature presentation" says it all.

In Schmolland, there's not a lot to do, so our citizens find

amusement wherever they can. Bouncing on the couch for hours,

methodically pulling feathers out of down pillows, and laughing

hysterically in bed at 4:00 a.m. are all traditional Schmutch

pastimes.

The hard part of living in our country is dealing with people from

other countries. We try to assimilate ourselves and mimic their

customs, but we aren't always successful. It's perfectly

understandable that an 8 year-old from Schmolland would steal a train

from a toddler at the Thomas the Tank Engine Train Table at Barnes

and Noble. But this is clearly not understandable or acceptable in

other countries, and so we must drag our 8 year-old out of the store

kicking and screaming, all the customers looking on with stark,

pitying stares. But we ignore these looks and focus on the exit sign

because we are a proud people.

Where we live it is not surprising when an 8 year-old boy reaches for

the fleshy part of a woman's upper torso and says, "Do we touch

boodoo?" We simply say, "No, we do not touch boodoo," and go on about

our business. It's a bit more startling in other countries, however,

and can cause all sorts of cross-cultural misunderstandings.

And, though most foreigners can get a drop of water on their pants

and still carry on, this is intolerable to certain citizens in

Schmolland, who insist that the pants must come off no matter where

they are and regardless of whether another pair of pants is present.

Other families who have special needs children are familiar and

comforting to us, yet are still separate entities. Together we make

up a federation of countries, kind of like Scandinavia. Like a person

from Denmark talking to a person from Norway (or in our case, someone

from Schmenmark talking to someone from Schmorway.), we share enough

similarities in our language and customs to understand each other,

but conversations inevitably highlight the diversity of our

traditions. "My child eats paper. Yesterday he ate a whole video

box." "My daughter only eats four foods, all of them white." "We

finally had to lock up the VCR because my child was obsessed with the

rewind button." "My son wants to blow on everyone."

There is one thing we all agree on. We are a growing population. Ten

years ago, 1 in 10,000 children had autism. Today the rate is

approximately 1 in 250. Something is dreadfully wrong. Though the

causes of the increase are still being hotly debated, a number of

parents and professionals believe genetic predisposition has collided

with too many environmental insults -- toxins, chemicals,

antibiotics, vaccines -- to create immunological chaos in the nervous

system of developing children. One medical journalist speculated

these children are the proverbial "canary in the coal mine", here to

alert us to the growing dangers in our environment.

While this is certainly not a view shared by all in the autism

community, it feels true to me.

I hope that researchers discover the magic bullet we all so

desperately crave. And I will never stop investigating new treatments

and therapies that might help my son. But more and more my priorities

are shifting from what "could be" to "what is." I look around this

country my family has created, with all its unique customs, and it

feels like home. For us, any time spent "nation building" is time

well spent.

-- The End --

Summer Vacation 2009

2009-07-10T10:12:00.005-04:00

We headed out for a quick trip last week. We had planned to spend a few days with my aunt and uncle in PA and then head down to Philadelphia for a day and head home. Well, what we had planned to be a four day trip, turned into a week vacation. We had such a good time with my aunt and uncle and cousins that we decided to stop by for a few more days after we went to Philly. It was a great time. Just what we needed!

Liberty Bell

Constitution Center

Franklin Institute

Geno's Steaks

Valley Forge

Valley Forge Memorial Arch

Maine

2009-06-28T08:12:00.004-04:00

Yesterday we took a quick trip up to Kittery, Maine. We haven't been up there since we lived there 8 years ago. It was fun to show Allie the house she lived in when she was a baby. It was nice to be able to go through our old stomping grounds and see what all had changed.

Then we headed up the shore line to York to see Nubble Light.

After that, we continued up Route 1 and eventually made it to Portland Head Light. I love it there. We had a nice picnic with a seagull waiting for us to finish so he could have our leftovers. Little did he know, we didn't leave any!

After goofing off for a bit at the lighthouse, we headed south and went to Kittery Trading Post. It was a lot of fun to walk through there and drool at some nice bikes and BL was picking our kayaks. If only we had a money tree!

When we finished up there, we headed to one of our favorite restuarants up there, Bugaboo Creek Steak House. It was better than we remember! It has a talking Buffalo that the kids just got a kick out of!

We headed home after dinner and hit some major thunder storms. Glad the rain held off until our drive home!

Patriot Half Ironman

2009-06-24T21:00:00.018-04:00

Here it is! My major accomplishment for the tri season. It was quite a day. Not just the race itself but the journey to get there. It is a journey I will never forget.

Triathlon - 1/2 Ironman (1.2 mile swim, 58 mile bike, 13.1 mile run)

Total Time = 7h 26m 16s

Overall Rank = 295/318

Age Group = Athena

Age Group Rank = 5/6

Pre-race routine:

Where to begin. I guess this all starts a few months ago, after the Hyannis Half Marathon in

February. I had such a good time with the Mass Mafia from BeginnerTriathlete.com and a good

race, that Marianne said, "hey, you should do Patriot Half Ironman (HIM) with us. There are a bunch of us doing it as our first HIM. You can cover the swim and run and you have plenty of time to work on your bike fitness." I said, "sounds like a great idea!" So, I signed up. I upgraded my BT (Beginner Triathlete) membership to silver and imported a training plan. I was doing really well with it too! Then life happened and I had a lot going on with BC (and continues to go on). Then I got injured playing a softball game as a favor to another friend. There went another week of training. I thought all was lost at that point and had a mini melt down. I pulled it together and refocussed and trained as hard as I could. Then some more stuff happened with BC and I had a total meltdown! Again, I pulled my head out of my rear and changed my goals for this race. I no longer had a time goal, only to finish. I was even okay if I was dead last. Something I have NEVER said (and doubt I'll say again!). I now viewed this race more like telling the universe it could go screw itself! No matter what it threw at me over the past few months, I was still gonna do this and do it with a smile.

So, Friday comes and Beth (who had spend countless hours training with me) and I drive up to MA and head to the race site. We meet up with Helen and it was GREAT to finally meet her! Marianne is around too and we go and pick up our packets. We then head out to a fun filled dinner and have a great time with some more BTers, Lisa, Josh and Rob. The MA BT crew is a blast. Really good people!

After dinner, Beth, Helen and I head over to the hotel. Helen needs to eat (again!) so she heads out to grab some food. I decided I was beat and need to try to sleep. Yeah, that didn't go so well. I was awake every 30 minutes. Ugh.

4:30 comes quickly! We all get up and get ready and are out of the hotel around 5:15. We get to the race site by 6:00. Got my transition area set up and go to get body marked. I wait my turn, get there and go, crap, is my number 395 or 365. I go and double check and I'm 395. Geez, I'm a dork! I eventually get body marked and meet up with Rudy. We chat for a bit and he tries to calm my nerves but I'm still a nervous wreck. I talk with Marianne (drool over her bike and new wheels), meet Sue and Cat. Chat with Kathy G. Chat with my rack mates. Lots of chatting!

Around 6:45, I decide to start getting into my wetsuit since it takes so long! I struggle with it for a bit and then I'm all set, it just needs to be zipped up. Plenty of time to do that later, my wave doesn't go off until 7:30.

I walk down to the water and chat with Rudy, Josh, Helen and Kathy. After a bit, I ask Rudy to zip me up. He does and I'm not exactly sure what happened but something went wrong with the zipper. Well, I'm freaking out as it is and now my wetsuit zipper is messed up. All I can think about is, "my wave goes off in 15 minutes and I am stuck in my wetsuit. I won't be able to get it off!" Well, between Rudy, Helen and Josh, they figure it out and get it fixed. Phew! Nothing like a little extra stress!

Soon, it is time for our wave. Kathy, Rudy and I make our way into the starting area and we see Kathy M. Yay, more BTers!! Say a quick hello and grab a hug and it's time to go!

Event warmup:

Ummm, does standing around in my wetsuit talking count??

Swim

36:26 - 1m 32s/100 yards

The swim had to be short. I am not that fast! But, it was still a great swim for me. The water felt great. I found open water really fast and just swam my little heart out. I didn't push it and just focused on my stroke and sighting. I had little problems with either. I tried to find someone to draft off but could never really find anyone with the same pace that could swim straight! I had someone draft off me almost the entire time. Every few minutes, my feet would get slapped. The first time sort of startled me but after that, I was fine.

Towards the end, I had a blonde moment. When I was breathing, I thought I smelt (tasted) nasty exhaust fumes. Not really thinking (obviously), when my head was back in the water, I take a sniff to see if I really smelt fumes. Well, the water steams up my nose and I feel like an idiot! I quickly realize that I am not the sharpest crayon in the box and blow out all the water. I had to chuckle at my stupidity! I guess I was in a zone and forgot what I was doing? Who knows!

I had a few sighting issues after I passed the last buoy. My goggles had fogged up a little and I was having a hard time seeing the swim exit. So I zig-zagged my way to the exit.

What would you do differently?:

Not much. I pretty much stopped swimming a month ago. I just got tired of going to the pool. Had I been training consistently, I think my time would have been better. All things considered, this was a fantastic swim.

3:42

I took my time. I was in no hurry. I got my wetsuit off, put on my bike jersey, socks, shoes, sunglasses, and helmet. Then grabbed my Uncrustables (thanks Marianne!) and stuffed them in my pockets. I unracked my bike and meandered out of transition. I have never been so slow in my life!

What would you do differently?:

Nothing. I was slow on purpose. I wanted to make sure I had everything and I did!

Bike

3:49:51 - 15.14 mph

Wow. This was tough for me. Going into the race, I knew that the bike was going to be my

downfall. My longest training ride was 40 miles. With everything that I have had going on in my life, I just didn't have the time or energy to do the long rides. Then I injured my quads and lost another week or so of quality training. That being said, I knew as long as I could make it to mile 58, I would finish this race. I made it but I paid for it!

The first loop was great! I was averaging between 16-17 mph and for me, that is HUGE! I knew it would come back to bite me on the second lap but I felt really good. My only issue was the mud that was stuck near my front brake from the muddy transition. I thought at first I had a flat or my brakes were rubbing but then realized the rubbing was just mud. I got it out without having to stop and was relieved that it wasn't anything mechanical!

At mile 15, I was HUNGRY! Like stomach growling hungry. I ate one Uncrustable even though I wanted to wait until mile 20ish before I ate it. After, I washed it down with a little Gatorade/water mix and was good to go. I was just out for a little spin on my bike and enjoying the course. It was a little lonely though. When you are as BOP (back of the pack=slow) as me, there aren't a lot of people around to ride with! But, it was really peaceful! Around mile 24ish, I saw Beth and Rudy. That was great! It gave me a little morale booster and made me smile.

The second lap just plain sucked! I had finished my first bottle of Gatorade/water and started on the plain Gatorade. Well, my stomach didn't much like it. At all. I ate my second Uncrustable around mile 40 but it didn't sit real well. Nothing major, just felt yucky. My speed dropped off pretty bad too. I went from 16-17 down to 11-13. Yikes. I was tired. Mile 50 came and I wanted to kill Marianne! Darn her for talking me into this! My back hurt, my arms hurt, my bum hurt, my legs hurt. Mentally, I was a wreck. Like about to start to cry wreck. I had a little pep talk with myself and decided it was time to put on the big girl panties, drop the hammer and get this ride over with! I still had a blasted half marathon to run and my pitiful 12 mph wasn't going to get me to T2 any faster so let's go!!!!

As I was coming up the hill at the end of the second lap, I could see all the speedy people finishing their run! I got quite a kick out of that. I can only imagine what it must be like to do a HIM in under 5 hours. They were moving! Here they were finishing the race as I was just starting my run. Funny!

What would you do differently?:

There really wasn't much I could have done differently on race day. My lack of training was a problem and I knew it was going to be at the start of the day. I gave it all I had, I just didn't have much to give. My goal was sub 4 hours for the bike and I made it. Yay me!

3:20

I reached the dismount line and gingerly got off my bike. It felt GREAT to get off!!! The volunteers asked if I was an Aquabiker (swim and bike only) and I said "I wish, but I still have 13.1 to complete!"

I walked my bike to my rack and racked it. I swapped my shoes, swapped shirts, grabbed my visor and race belt. As an afterthought, I grabbed a gel and downed it. I drank some water and was thinking about walking out of T2 when I hear someone call my name. I look up and see Lisa's smiling face. She says, "what are you doing?" I said, "having a picnic!" It was a God send to see her. Really. After that horrible bike, I wanted to die. Seeing her, and then all my other friends, was like manna falling from heaven! I chatted with them for a few minutes and then hit the port a potty. I decided I better get running so off I went.

What would you do differently?:

Not a gosh darn thing!

Run

2:56:58 - 13m 31s per mile

I started walking right out of transition. I knew I didn't want to run right away. I happened to walk out of T2 with another lady. So of course we start chatting. Her name is Linda and has a daughter named Erica who runs like a gazelle. Well, I don't run like a gazelle but I can try! We walk for about a half mile and then we decide to run. Slowly. I feel GREAT. Yay me! She says, nope, go on without me. Okay. So off I go. My slow little run.

Soon here is the first aide station. Wow, that was quick! I walk through it and drink some water. Then start running again. I see another runner up ahead and I'm catching her!! I catch up and ask how she is doing. She was good but is ready to be done. We chat for a bit and then here comes Linda again. We all run together until the 2nd aide station. I walk through again (walking all aide stations) and grab more water. Linda and I start running and the other girl drops off. The two of us had a really nice conversation. It was so nice to have someone to run with and talk with! If I was alone on that course, I would have died, okay, not really, but you know what I mean!

Mile 3, I take a gel and more water. Still feeling good! Then comes mile 4. Yup, I'm done! My legs were heavy and my stomach started complaining. I ignored it and we kept on running our slow running pace. By mile 6, I needed a bathroom. NOW! Well, there weren't any port o potties on the course. So, off to find a bush for me. That was an experience I hope to never repeat again!

Linda had kept on going so I had to catch up. I did so pretty quickly and was feeling better. We were now taking more walk breaks but still running the majority of it. By mile 10, we both were done. But, we only had a 5k left. No problem, right???

Around mile 11, I see Beth running up on the other side of the road. What a great sight! She crosses over and runs with us and asks how we are feeling. Well, like crap! But, we only had two more miles!!

I had been keeping an eye on the time and really wanted to finish before 3:00. It was 2:45. We had 15 minutes to cover a mile. Let's go! So, we start running again. Then came that stupid hill. We walk up the hill and then start running again. Beth takes off and Linda and I head to the finish chute.

What I didn't realize is that there was still a decent run before we got to the finish line. Really??? Come on! I just want to be done! I had nothing left. So I thought. I round the corner and I hear a big cheer from none other than the BT crew. I heard Chris and Helen specifically. That was enough for me to kick it up a notch. I finally see the finish line and make it through. Kathy M was there with my medal and water. It took me a minute to realize it was her but I was so thankful she was there.

That was such an emotional moment for me. Yes, I started to cry. I couldn't hold it in. It wasn't even the emotions from just the race, it was everything. It was BC, it was my quads, it was all the hours of training, everyone that made this race possible for me, Marianne for even suggesting (pushing??) me to do it....everything all hit me at once. I did it. Something I never thought I could do.

What would you do differently?:

Wow, I'm not sure I could have done anything differently! I would have loved to go faster but I couldn't. I gave it all I had.

Post race

Warm down:

No warm down. At all. Just finished running and that was it! Hugged my friends, cried a bit and got my stuff out of transition. Off for some recovery food!

What limited your ability to perform faster:

The biggest issue I had was my bike fitness. I just didn't have the time/opportunity to put in the long rides like I needed to. Lesson learned!

Another detail to note is that this was my fourth triathlon. Yup, fourth. I have done three sprints before this race. So, I think my lack of experience showed. But where I lack in experience, I make up for in my overwhelming amount of determination and stubbornness.

This was an experience unlike any other I have had. The highs and the lows of the day were remarkable. I learned a lot about myself through this journey. I encourage you all to try something new. Something you do not think you can do. Set a goal. Work toward it. It might take a lot of work and tears but when you attain it, it is a feeling unlike any other. It is amazing what things you will learn about yourself when you push yourself to your limit and beyond.

School's Out for the Summer!!!

2009-06-18T16:10:00.002-04:00

Woot, last day of school!!!!!

Bring on the summer fun!!!

Best Buds and Wipeouts

2009-06-10T18:36:00.002-04:00

Stitch and his best buddy, C.

And then there is BC.....

*sigh*

Mystic River Valley Triathlon

2009-06-08T07:01:00.004-04:00

Yesterday, I completed my first triathlon of the year. While I'd normally say I raced yesterday, I didn't. I used this as a training day for my upcoming Half Iron Man on June 20. So, here is the race report. It was a perfect day and I had a blast out there!

Mystic River Valley Triathlon
2009-06-07
Mystic, Connecticut
United States
70F / 21C
Sunny

Triathlon - Sprint
Total Time = 1h 42m 21s
Overall Rank = 177/240
Age Group = F30-34
Age Group Rank = 6/10

Pre-race routine:

At 4:00 on Saturday, I decide to get all my stuff together. I'm babysitting my nieces and nephew so I don't have anything better to do! I gather my tri top and go to grab my tri shorts. Ummm, where are they? I searched my house from top to bottom and could not find them. So, at 4:30, I am rushing 6 kids out of the house to race over to the LBS (little bike shop) to grab a new pair before the LBS closes (has anyone ever taken 6 kids to the LBS before? Yikes).

We get back from the LBS and I decide to pack my bag. I used my swim bag and dumped out all my excess swim gear (anyone see where this is going?). I put in my swim cap, wetsuit, race belt, towel, bike shoes, running shoes. I throw my bag and bike in the car so I don't have to worry about it in the morning.

I got up at 5:00 and jumped in the shower to wake up a bit. Got dressed, had coffee and a PB&J. Jumped on BT (Beginner Triathlete) and wished some friends good luck today. Woke up my kiddos and got them ready for my friend to pick up.

She shows up and we do the hand off. The kids are off for a fun filled day of lacrosse watching and eating sugar and I am off to race! Sweet.

Got to the race site and set up my transition. I shoot the breeze with a few friends. I head back to my transition spot and meet another friend from BT who happened to rack right next to me. About this time, I realize, I forgot to repack my goggles. Seriously? Come on! Fortunately, BTers are the best and I had two offers to use their spare pairs. Thanks guys, it would have been a long swim if you weren't there!

Event warmup:

I jumped in the water to leak checked the borrowed goggles. Good to go. I met another BTer in the water and we chatted for a bit.

Swim 19:46- 880 yds - 2:15/100 yds 179/240

Comments:

I found open water quickly. There was no one around me after the first 100 yards or so. Nice. My sighting to the first bouy was fantastic. I was feeling good. Then I rounded the bouy. Hmmm, not sure what happened but I just could not get my sighting down. I was zig zagging all over the place! After I finally rounded the second bouy, I was good to go. No problems sighting the shore and swam my little heart out to get there. I was very disappointed when I looked at my watch and say 19 minutes. Besides sighting, not sure what went wrong. I'm going with the course was long.

What would you do differently?:

Sight better!

T1

Comments:

My bloody wetsuit got caught on my timing chip. Bah! I finally realized it and got it of quickly after that.

I rolled on my socks and threw on my bike shoes, sun glasses and helmet. Ran the bike out of transition.

What would you do differently?:

Realize my suit was caught on my chip before I did and get it off faster.

101/240 in T1. I'll take it!

Bike 52:50 - 14.4 miles - 16.35 mph - 206/240

Comments:

I jumped on my bike and off I went. I have ridden this course a few times and really enjoy it. It is quiet and quaint. I reminded myself that this was a training day and not to hammer it as much as I wanted to. It is becoming apparent to me that I can climb hills pretty well. This course doesn't have hardly any hills but I would catch people on them and then they would re pass me on the flats. Humph!

I enjoyed the cows that came out to cheer us on! They seemed a bit bored though.

What would you do differently?:

Okay, it's no secret. The bike is where I really need to focus on. I am SLOW. This is the fastest I have ever ridden and I was still way BOP. I need some serious T.I.T.S. (Time in the Saddle)

T2

Comments:

Pretty good T2. I racked my bike, threw off my helmet, swapped my shoes, put on my race belt and grabbed my visor. I ran off putting my visor on while running out of T2.

What would you do differently?:

Maybe put my race belt on while running but not much really.

44/240 T2

Run 27:21 - 3 miles - 9:07 m/m - 196/240

Comments:

Good run for me. No, great run for me. I was feeling a bit hot and tired coming out of T2. I didn't drink hardly anything on the bike and I was starting to feel it. Oh well, I just ran at what felt like a nice easy pace. I refused to look at my watch at all on the run. I was sure I was running about a 10:30-11:00 m/m and I didn't want to know my time. I knew it couldn't be faster because I felt so good. I grabbed some water at the first aide station but didn't drink it. I cannot run and drink at the same time and I didn't want to stop. So, I tossed it and went on. This course has little shade and the sun was out in full force. About the turn around spot, there is a bit of shade and it felt so nice! I made the turn and started my trot back in to the finish line. I was just enjoying myself and enjoying the course. I came up on the little hill to the finish and debated about passing the guy in front of me. I could have caught him but I didn't for two reasons. One, he is not in my age group (obviously, it was a dude) and two, this was a training day, not a race day. (turns out it was my friends dad! Big congrats to him on his first tri at age 60!) I finished and was floored when I hit my watch and saw it said 27:21. Wow.

What would you do differently?:

Not one thing!

Post race

Warm down:

Not much. I turned in my chip and talked with some fellow BTers and friends.

What limited your ability to perform faster:

This was a training day. I really would have liked to race this all out but I just wanted to have a good time in preparation for Patriot HIM.

Now T minus 12 days and counting to my A race. I cannot wait (for it to be here and over!).

First Communion

2009-05-18T15:33:00.003-04:00

On Sunday, Allie received her first communion. She has worked very hard over the past two years to prepare for this very special day. We got up EARLY on Sunday morning to get her hair all done up and her dress on. She was absolutely stunning. We were lucky enough to have a family and friends be able to come and witness her receiving the sacrament.

Summer Time??

2009-04-17T15:35:00.002-04:00

We wish but, we did hit the beach today to enjoy the warm weather. We are very ready for summer!

Stitch

Allie and Kenners

Happy Easter!

2009-04-12T21:13:00.000-04:00

Wishing you all a very blessed day!

Bowling with Buddies

2009-04-12T21:01:00.003-04:00

Last weekend, we headed out for a family fun night with some friends. It's always a hoot to watch little kiddos bowl! The balls are so awkward for them but they have a blast chucking it down the lane anyway! A good time was had by most! (Allie was not happy she had to go bowling with the little kids!)

Stitch and his good buddy, C.

This pretty much sums up how Allie felt about the evening! (Stitch and J.)

My running buddy, C and hubby M.

Say it isn't so!

2009-04-12T20:57:00.003-04:00

My baby is 5!!!

Yeah, I know, only 4 candles. Hey, when you have 3 birthday's in 6 weeks, you are bound to forget something!

How the time flies! Stitch is a full hand now!

Happy, Happy!

2009-03-25T08:29:00.002-04:00

My little girl is 8 today. How did that happen? I swear, just last week, I looked at her and this is what I saw:

Then yesterday, I glanced at her again and saw this:

Now today, here she is:

How did this happen???

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

2009-03-17T11:21:00.004-04:00

Another holiday, more baked goods for the school. Here is this holiday's. Not bad if I do say so myself!

Happy Birthday!!!

2009-02-28T08:18:00.005-05:00

A big ole happy birthday to my BC. Turning 6 today. Where does the time go????

Race Pictures

2009-02-26T14:24:00.003-05:00

Well, the pictures are up. Just when I start to feel like I look pretty good.....Ugh. Not so much. Oh well, four years ago I would have never put on running tights let alone wear them in public!

Race Report

2009-02-24T10:04:00.007-05:00

Here's all the details of the Hyannis Half. I did not meet my goal but I did get a PR by 6 minutes. I'll take it and next half, I'll hit my goal!

Hyannis Half Marathon
2009-02-22
Hyannis, Massachusetts
United States
B.A. Event Promotions
40F / 4C
Overcast

Run - Half Marathon
Total Time = 2h 23m 35s
Overall Rank = 1820/2044
Age Group = F30-39
Age Group Rank = 286/330

Pre-race routine:

I woke up EARLY, around 5:00. Got up, made coffee and had a peanut butter sandwich. I called to check on my daughter who was pretty sick with a major ear infection. She was not doing well so I debated weather or not to even race. But, in the end, it didn't make sense not too. So, I drove over to the race site and froze my rear off for a bit. Met up with some friends and chatted and took pictures.

Event warmup:

Not much here. Walked around and tried to stay warm.

Run

Comments:

I lined up around the 11-12 minute mile pace. I ideally wanted to be faster but was being realistic too. Since I was pretty sick the week before and still coughing up a lung, I didn't think my goal of 2:20 was going to be attainable. So, I just thought I'd shoot for having a good time. The gun goes off and it takes forever to cross the timing mats.

The first few miles of a race are always a struggle just to get through all the people who don't line up properly or the people that just abruptly start walking. Part of the fun I suppose yikes, those first few miles were CROWDED! I had decided to leave my Garmin at home so I was just running along in solitude (no ipod) and enjoying the day. As worried as I was about the weather, it was close to perfect out there. The scenery was really pretty too. We came upon mile 3 and I took my first GU. My plan was GU at 3,6,9,12. I brought my water bottle too so I could blow through the aide stations. Worked like a charm! Running along the shore was fabulous. I picked out my summer house and enjoyed the views. I was feeling pretty good until around mile 7 or 8 and that is when it started to feel like someone was sitting on my chest. I just couldn't seem to get enough air. I thought about walking and using my inhaler but I didn't want my pace to drop off. Stupid I know but oh well. I sucked it up and kept running. About that time I saw Scott run by. I caught up to him and we ran together for a bit. That helped me out a ton! After we parted ways, I got my second wind. I took my third GU and came upon mile 10. I told myself to pick it up for the last 5k. I did and passed a TON of people. I felt the best I had all day. Came up on the last hill and sprinted to the finish. Felt good to be done! I checked my watch and came in at 2:23:35.

I am disappointed that I missed 2:20 but felt that I ran the best I could on that day.

What would you do differently?:

Wear my Garmin. I think if I had it on, I would have made 2:20 but I might have lost a lung. Fair trade, no? Still a PR by around 6 minutes. I'll take it!

Post race

Warm down:

Walked around for a little bit and headed back to the hotel to shower.

What limited your ability to perform faster:

My crappy lungs. I just couldn't get as much air as I would have liked.

Off to the Races

2009-02-21T09:14:00.004-05:00

I'm off to Hyannis, MA to run the Hyannis Half Marathon tomorrow. Wish me luck so I don't loose a lung!

Another One Bites the Dust

2009-02-20T18:57:00.005-05:00

Our personal pharmacy.

Well, we have three more casualties to add to our sick house. I came down with a version of what the boys had but instead of the ears, it has taken up residence in my lungs. I finally went to the doctor yesterday and came home with a ton of medicines. Feelin' a bit better now.

Then comes Allie at 3:00 in the morning. Not a big deal since I was up since 2:00 from one of my meds (nice). Her ear hurts. Great. I take her to the doctor and sure enough, bulging ear infection. Nice. While waiting for her medicine, it explodes and nastiness ensues. Yuck. Poor girl was in so much pain. She is feeling better now but still has a way to go.

Lastly comes BL. He too has an ear infection. Can you believe it? All four of them got ear infections! Crazy! Let's hope this is the last of the sickness for awhile!

Winter Vacation

2009-02-17T15:46:00.003-05:00

This week is the children's winter break from school. It could not have come at a better time. See, BC has been sick for over a week now and really needs time to relax. I took him to the doctor last week and they told me that he looked good so it is probably just viral. Bring him back in a few days if he doesn't get any better. Well, I think they forgot it was a holiday weekend! Of course BC didn't get better, he got worse. Much worse. Like a fever of 104 degrees worse. So, on Monday morning, I took him in the the ER. We were there for a few hours and it turns out he has a double ear infection. Poor guy. Off to the pharmacy we go to pick up his medicine and a little treat of orange soda (yuck). We get home and Stitch comes up to me and says, "my ear hurts." Seriously?? Sure enough, he has a fever too. Ugh. After chatting with BL about it, we decide he needs to go to the doctor too. So I pack him up and back to the ER I go. In all, I was there from 7:30 until 2:00 in the afternoon. What a wonderful way to spend President's Day! Stitch has an ear infection too. Poor kids. Back to the pharmacy I go. Same medicine. Stop at McD's for his treat and home. Blech!

BC is still not feeling 100%. He has slept most of the past four days.

Stitch is feeling better but still not completely better.

So, thankfully we have this week to rest and recoup. Let's hope BC is better by Monday since the school has sent me hate mail in regards to how many days he's already missed!

Valentine's Cards

2009-02-11T09:06:00.004-05:00

The kids decided yesterday to start writing out their Valentine's cards for their friends. BC worked for 2 hours writing out all 20 names by himself. Yikes. Allie took her time picking out a specific card for each classmate. Stitch, well, he was more interested in BC's lollipops than anything but I did get him to write his name on all 8 of his cards. Oy!

Check out the shirt and tie that BC picked out to wear to school. Such a handsome devil!

Book Worm

2009-02-06T11:35:00.002-05:00

25 Things

2009-02-03T09:02:00.000-05:00

Cross post from Facebook:

1. I twist my hair. Don't know why, just do.

2. I like all sorts of different kinds of music but my favorite genres are alternative and rap. Weird combo, huh?
3. I am a certified scuba diver. I was certified in Guam and wish I had done more diving while we were there.
4. I love to move. I love the new adventure of a new place with new things to explore.
5. While I love to move, I also hate to move. I hate having to start all over and meet new friends every two years. After a lifetime of it, I am growing tired of it.
6. There no number 6.
7. I have a hearing impaired child. I never know if he doesn't hear me or if he is ignoring me. Seeing as it's a boy, he is probably ignoring me!
8. I hate winter. There is nothing good about it.
9. I want to do an Ironman in the future.
10. I will get a tattoo after I finish my first Half Ironman, hopefully in July.
11. I love to work out. It isn't so much about the swimming, biking or running but more about the journey. It's about pushing myself harder and farther than before and the feeling of accomplishment after.
12. I weigh less now than I did in high school. Heh.
13. I consider Hawaii to be my home. I don't have any family there but my heart is still there.
14. I teach 3rd grade CCD. I love teaching my kids.
15. I still don't know what I want to be when I grow up!
16. I pass out when I get too hot. TIMBER!
17. I am addicted to soda. Whenever I buy a case of soda, it is gone in two days.
18. I drink a pot of coffee a day. Extra bold Sumatra from Starbucks ground in our burr grinder. There is no better way to start the day.
19. I chose to have Liam on April Fool's Day. I think it is funny. Seeing as he is a clown, it has worked out well.
20. I love to travel. I love to see different cultures and try new things.
21. I am a city girl. I am like a fish out of water when I am in the country.
22. I am super sarcastic.
23. I tend to be a bit stubborn, to a fault. If you tell me it can't be done, I won't stop until I accomplish it.
24. I'm a news freak. I watch it every morning and check out about 4 different news websites.
25. I bite my nails. Horrible habit that I never could break.

Lego Maniac

2009-01-11T10:01:00.003-05:00

BC got a new Lego set yesterday. Lego's are his new infatuation. He loves all things Legos. Me too! I always enjoyed building and creating with legos when I was a kid. I love that he too enjoys it.

Here is the set I bought him yesterday.

Here is BC, hours later so proud that he did it. With VERY little help. I even had to make him stop building to eat dinner!

Schedule of Events

2009-01-08T21:46:00.003-05:00

It's that time of year again.....time to make plans. Yup, I'm planning out my races for 2009! How exciting! Well, maybe not for you all but it is for me! I was hoping to do my first marathon this year but I think that will have to wait. With BL's sea schedule, I just don't have the time to be able to do a 20 mile training run. So, I'll stick with my half marathon's. Here is what it looks like so far:

February 22 - Hyannis Half Marathon in Hyannis, MA (registered and very excited)

February 28 - Colchester Half Marathon in Colchester, CT (as long as I can still walk after Hyannis!)

March 28 - St Joseph School 3 miler in Baltic, CT

May 3 - either the Lehigh Valley Half Marathon in Allentown, PA or the Willow Tree Half in Providence, RI

May 31 - Iron Horse Half Marathon in Hartford, CT with Rae (her first half!!)

June 7 - Mystic River Valley Sprint Triathlon in Mystic, CT

July 12 - RI 70.3 triathlon - Providence, RI (hopefully)

August - Newport Naval Station Sprint Triathlon in Newport, RI

October - Hartford Half Marathon in Hartford, CT

I'm sure I'll throw in a few other road races but this years main focus is the Half Ironman (1.2 mile swim, 56 mile bike, 13.1 mile run). I am really hoping it all works out and I will be able to race this one. My biggest uncertainty is BL's schedule and being able to train enough. As long as I get my bike training in, I'll be fine. I have run enough and swam enough to make the cut offs, it is just that pesky bike leg that worries me. Then again, how hard can biking 56 miles be???

So, who is gonna join me????? Training for the half iron starts soon!

Reflections

2008-12-31T18:04:00.002-05:00

2008

"Growth is revealed through change."

Change. That seems to be the word that best describes my year. So much changed. Some for the good, some not so great, some just plain bad. As a family, we celebrated the end of a deployment, birthday's, an anniversary. We experienced new places and saw amazing things.

The children all started school. Allie and Stitch are flourishing beyond my expectations. BC has had some challenges. All that aside, he is HAPPY and that is what is important for now.

Individually, I made some major changes. I dropped 15 unneeded pounds. I became a triathlete. I ran a half marathon. I have had to come to the realization (and am working on accepting) that I have a child that isn't 'perfect.' I have fought for what I believe is the best interest of my child. I have learned that life sometimes happens. I need to accept whatever comes or at least not dwell on it all the time. Some things I cannot change, I have to find a different way. Everything does indeed happen for a reason. I do not always know the reason but it will all work out in the end. I might not be able to see it right now, but it will be okay....eventually.

As 2009 is approaching in just a few short hours, I look forward to the challenges a new year will bring. We have another deployment looming. We will possibly have more diagnosis's to discover and accept. We will celebrate more birthday's and another anniversary. We will see more amazing places and awe inspiring sights. The children will grow. BL will grow. I too will grow......through change.

Wishing you a very happy 2009!

Christmas Season

2008-12-25T22:55:00.002-05:00

Well, I realize it has been awhile since I have posted anything of substance. Soooo, in the spirit of giving, I give to you...The. Cutest. Kids. Ever.

BC ready for his Sing-A-Long.

BC and Mrs. W after the Sing-A-Long.

Allie before the Christmas Pageant.

Stitch opening presents Christmas morning.

Merry Christmas

2008-12-24T19:34:00.002-05:00

NYC

2008-12-12T19:47:00.006-05:00

Allie and me in American Girl.

The stunning St. Patrick's Cathedral. One day I will go to mass there.

Rockefeller Plaza

BFF and me at Rockefeller Plaza.

Self explanatory!

The Rockettes!

Rockettes again!

Girl's Day Out

2008-12-10T05:21:00.002-05:00

Tomorrow Allie and I along with some close friends, are headed down to NYC to see the Radio City Christmas Spectacular show. I have been looking forward to this for a few months now. It is a surprise for the girls. After the show, we are going to stroll on over to the American Girl store. Then hit Rockefeller Center and check out the big tree. Maybe this is what I need to jump start my holiday spirit. Check back for pictures of our big adventure!

Bah Humbug!

2008-12-09T08:23:00.002-05:00

It is 15 days until Christmas. Am I the only one who doesn't have the tree up and house decorated? What is wrong with me? This is usually my favorite time of year. Not so much this year. My attitude stinks! I just don't feel like doing any of it! No advet calenders, no tree, no decorating the house, no lights outside. Bah! I did get some shopping done yesterday. Finally. I am almost done. Only a few more things to get. Plenty of time left though, right? Sure. I keep telling myself that. No kids, we are not putting up the tree this weekend, maybe next (I've said that a few times already). The tree still won't get put up this weekend either. No time! iCal is booked from now until January. Sooooo, please tell me that I am not the only one who is not even close to being ready for Christmas!!!!

Welcome to Holland

2008-12-06T21:27:00.001-05:00

By Emily Perl Kingsley

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......

When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."

"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."

But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.

But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."

And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away...because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss. But...if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.

The Big 3-0

2008-12-04T07:11:00.005-05:00

It's here! I am officially old today! I turn the big 3-0 today! While some approach this milestone birthday with trepidation, I have been celebrating all week! I got up at 4:45 this morning to get a quick run in before BL had to leave. I plan to do a long run after I drop Stitch off at school. It gives me time to reflect on all that I have been blessed with this year. It is really overwhelming all that I have. So, while I may not be headed out for a nice quiet dinner or having a big bash, I will enjoy the solitude and quiet of my run this afternoon and reflect on the past 30 years.

Happy 30th Birthday to me!!

Christmas Project

2008-12-02T14:40:00.002-05:00

Last night I start whipping up some lei's for the kiddos teachers for Christmas. One teacher's favorite color is red so I got some red yarn and off I go. Here is Allie modeling the final product. What do you think? Too red? BL thinks it is fine but I'm not sure. Help me out!

Thanksgiving

2008-11-26T19:55:00.003-05:00

As another year has gone by, there are many things I have found to be thankful for. Here is just a short list:

1. My husband. I am thankful that he is not deployed this year. Last years holiday season was just not the same without him. He is the best thing that has happened to me and I love him with all my heart.

2. My children. Each one of the three brings a different quality that teaches me so much.

Allie is such a good girl. She is helpful and endearing. She is smart as a whip and is always trying to help out around the house.
I'm not sure where to start with BC. He has had many hardships in his 5 years but he just keeps plugging along. He doesn't let his hearing impairment stop him in the least. He is always thinking of others. He has the best sense of humor and is always making me laugh without trying. He truly is one of a kind.
Stitch is..... well, my baby! Hard to believe my baby is turning 5 soon. He is a jokester but then again, what do you expect from a kid who was born on April Fool's Day!

3. My parents. Without them I wouldn't be here. So, a big shout out to them!

4. My sister. We weren't super close growing up but in the past few years, we have formed a friendship that I am so thankful for. It means a lot to me. Thanks Rae!

5. Running. Yup, you read it right. Running has become my prozac! I'm addicted and when I don't run, I am just not the same.

6. There is no number six. (long story, don't ask)

7. BC's teacher. She is a class act and has gone WAY above and beyond the call of duty. I can't think of another teacher that I have dealt with who would put up with all we have had to deal with in the past few months. HUGE props to her. If only we had a bunch more like her....

8. Coffee. I know, I know. Corny but I must have it and I'm thankful for the strong stuff!

9. Friends. Friends who will tell me not what I want to hear all the time. Friends who will be truthful and honest. Friends who are there for me when I have a bad day, when I need a babysitter at the last minute, who have been there through thick and thin, through typhoons and through really unbelievable times. Thanks!

Well, I could go on and on but I must go and bake a pie for my wonderful family. Take some time out tomorrow and think about what you are thankful for. I know it is easy to get lost in the day's festivities but try to catch some quiet time to reflect on all we have to be thankful for.

Calm Before the Storm

2008-11-22T11:54:00.002-05:00

For those of you with more than two kids....

Have you ever realized that if you take one child out of the equation, it is much calmer in the house??? It doesn't matter which one is gone, it is just so much clamer and quieter! Stitch is at a birthday party and it is so quiet with just BC and Allie here! The two of them are playing so nicely on the computer. If Stitch was here, there would be arguing and fighting non-stop! I don't get it! It is the same way if one of the other kiddos is gone. Go figure!! I'll enjoy it while it lasts....I pick up Stitch in an hour!

Pilgrims

2008-11-21T09:43:00.003-05:00

Yesterday I was baking up a storm for Stitch's fall party at school today. I made a wonderful smelling (hopefully tasting) apple crisp and whipped up some little pilgrim hat cookies. Super cute but a bit of a pain to make. Oh well, aren't most things? The bummer is that poor Stitch can't even go to his party! BC was kind enough to share his pink eye germs and Stitch was the lucky one to pick them up! He is really disappointed that he cannot go to his party. Oh well, there will be plenty more parties for him to go to as the years progress!

Sick again

2008-11-18T14:09:00.003-05:00

BC is home from school today. He has pink eye. Yuck! I hate pink eye, it's gross! This morning was absolutely crazy! Stitch and BC were just plain crazy! I don't know how I managed them both home all day together last year! Yikes. I was so happy when it was finally time to take Stitch to school. After we dropped him off, BC wanted to swing by his class to say hi. Not the best idea but they were out at recess so I let him wave to his classmates. They were so excited to see him! It was pretty cute. After that, we headed off to the grocery to pick up a few things for Thanksgiving and class parties. I got our turkey. Yuck. Am I the only one out there that doesn't eat turkey on Thanksgiving? I just don't like it! I am all about the side dishes but not the bird. No thanks. I do like the sandwiches the next day though. Anywho, I got home and put all my food away and realized that I have to go back and pick up a few things I forgot. How frustrating! Oh well, I'll put that on the agenda for tomorrow!

Passion Restored

2008-11-17T13:51:00.003-05:00

After about a month or so of having no desire to do any sort of training whatsoever, I have finally found my passion for running again. Thank heavens! A few weeks before the half marathon in October, I pretty much fizzled out. I was tired of it all. I had been going full steam ahead for months with little to no break. So, I finally burnt out. I am still amazed that I was able to finish that sucker in the time I did with such poor training. That gives me hope for my next big race.... in May. Yup, I've done it again! Signing up for another half marathon. This one is in Rhode Island on May 3. Anyone up for round 2????? Training starts hard core in February. But, between now and then, I will enjoy the leisurely four mile runs in the brisk air. Just me and the open road. *sigh* Life is back to normal!

Nap Time

2008-11-13T14:54:00.002-05:00

I need a nap. Really, I do. It is cold and rainy this afternoon. Perfect nap weather. Too bad I have to go and pick up Stitch in 5 minutes. Maybe tomorrow.... nope, we have a ton to do tomorrow. Bummer.

It's been pretty quiet on the blog front lately. Not much I feel like blogging about. Lots has been going on but nothing I really feel like sharing with the world. Sorry! It has been very interesting and enlightening but that is all I will say about that.

It's hard to believe that Thanksgiving is two weeks away! Where did the time go?? I guess I should start thinking about getting a turkey and all that goes with it huh? No worries, plenty of time!

Well, it is about time for the kiddos to come charging in from school. I can't wait to hear how eventful their days were! Catch you all later!

Happy Veteran's Day

2008-11-11T10:13:00.004-05:00

A quick shout out to all of our veterans. Thank you for your service to our country and all that you have sacrificed throughout the years. It is not forgotten!

Ugh

2008-11-06T17:29:00.002-05:00

Does anyone else think this has been a long week? With the crazy election on Tuesday, the kiddos had the day off. That meant Stitch had both Tuesday and Wednesday off from school. Ugh! It was such a long two days. I was so excited to drop him off this afternoon!

Of course I had wanted to run away as soon as his teachers came to take charge of him but that was not meant to be. I got caught be BC's teach and started chatting about him. That poor kid cannot catch a break. Why does it seem like the universe is always dumping on him? He has definitely inherited my little black cloud! Sorry buddy! Hopefully he will be on his way to doing better in class in the next few weeks. I must give props to his teach for being very accommodating and going out of her way to make sure he will succeed in her class. She is second to none!

After I finished at the school, I headed off to the grocery. I think that is the first time in awhile that I didn't have any children with me to do the food shopping. It was wonderful! I was in and out in less than an hour! Gotta love that! I didn't once have to stop and tell a kid to hurry up or to put that down, all I had to do was dodge old people!

I got home, put all the food away and headed off to find a cheap wedding ring. I haven't been wearing one for quite some time now. My original ones don't fit anymore, too big. Great problem to have isn't it? Logical solution would be to just have them sized but, with all the swimming I do, the chlorine would break down the gold and loosen up the diamond settings. So, I just have opted not to wear rings. BL doesn't care so it hasn't been an issue. Until this week. There is a new dude at the gym... yup, can you see where this is going?? So, I need a ring. I didn't find anything today. I ended up ordering one from Amazon. It's titanium. I don't think even I can mess that up! I just hope it fits!

We are off tonight to the PTO meeting. I hope Stitch can stay upright and not crack his head open again! Yikes! Catch you all later!!!

Halloween and weekend in review

2008-11-03T07:23:00.003-05:00

Phew! What a weekend! Friday was a crazy day! With fall parties at school and trick or treating at night, it was a crazy, sugar filled day! I couldn't believe how insane BC's class was Friday afternoon! Yikes. Again, I could NEVER be a kindergarten teacher!!!!! No way!!!!

We had a good time walking around the neighborhood trick or treating. We met many friends along the way and enjoyed chatting with everyone. The weather was pretty mild too! Score!

Saturday was a nice, relaxing day. For the most part, we stayed at home and chilled. Nice.

Sunday was crazy. I had a meeting at church at 8:00. Ugh! Even with the extra hour of sleep, it was still too early! With meetings before and then after church, it made for a long day. We didn't get home until close to 2:00!

I had the privilege of heading over to a friends house for dinner last night. Julie is from LA and made some gumbo. I had never had gumbo. Can I tell you how yummy it was?? It was a nice night with good food and good friends. I got home late and headed straight to bed. It was the first night in almost two weeks that I actually slept! Thank heavens!!!!

I'm off to drink some coffee and get my day started. Hope you all had a good weekend too!